July 4th weekend is here, this year an extended time for celebrating our nation’s independence in the United States. There will be parades and carnivals and ball games and hot dogs and barbecues and fireworks everywhere (“except in my love life,” sighed someone out there. I heard that. Me too!). As a nation, we got…
To My Single Son Raising Children Alone
I know today is Father’s Day. I know you have been having a difficult time raising your children alone. I see you, My single son. I see your struggles. I see how tough it is to raise a child when the culture around you puts men down, especially fathers, with mocking and dismissive attitudes. I…
Happy Mothers’ Day
A great big “Happy Mothers’ Day” goes to all you ladies who are moms, especially you who were single mothers. Most of you have or had literal, physical children. Many of you, like myself, did not have children physically. However, you have cared for others, you have helped raised siblings and cousins and nieces and…
To the Mother Who Hasn’t Been One Yet
He gives the childless woman a household, making her the joyful mother of children. Hallelujah! Psalm 113:9 HCSB This verse feels like a mockery, a point of despair, for many of my single sisters. Mother’s Day is a tough week for these women who wanted to have children by this time in their lives, but…
The Promise of the Resurrection for single Christians
2 It is this Good News that saves you if you continue to believe the message I told you—unless, of course, you believed something that was never true in the first place. 3 I passed on to you what was most important and what had also been passed on to me. Christ died for our sins, just…
Finally… It’s Here:
Finally, it’s here: spring. Bright, brisk, sunny, warm, dry, and refreshing spring. Lord, I thought it would never get here. This is my favorite time of the year—spring going into early summer. I love it. Thank you, Lord. You know, God, that Daily Savings Time is probably my most favorite day of the year besides…
Waiting Only For You
To My dearest sweetheart, The one I love more than anyone in this world, The most beautiful fiancée in this life and the life to come, You’re gorgeous and breathtaking in every way. I love you. I love the way that sounds. I enjoy saying it to you. You can’t see Me smiling…
Fifty Shades of Clay
As a single Christian adult, have you ever experienced any of these scenarios? You show up to church services looking for a seat. You see an empty seat next to someone of a different color than you, but keep going till you find a seat next to someone of the same color. You gravitate toward…
For my fellow single Christians: This Year, 2017, Are You *Finally* Ready for the Great Exchange?
Though you may have already said “Happy New Year!” to most of the people in your regular circles, and you’ve settled back into the monotony of day-to-day living, it’s still a fresh new year. It’s only January 8! New year’s resolutions? Nope. I stopped doing those a long time ago. I try to change habits…
What Cannot Stand and Cannot Deliver
Happy New Year, my friend! A warm welcome to you who are followers of Christ and are single. Especially if you just discovered my weekly blog. May the riches, joy, peace, love, healing, purity, glory, and hope of Christ be yours in an amazing abundance this glorious new year, 2017. Way last week, as we…