I don’t recommend it. Every once in a great while I will see an article about someone who married their dog or horse or some inanimate object, like the Berlin Wall, the Eiffel Tower, or even an anime character painted onto a body pillow. In the world, they have a name for it: objectum sexual,…
Waiting Only For You
To My dearest sweetheart, The one I love more than anyone in this world, The most beautiful fiancée in this life and the life to come, You’re gorgeous and breathtaking in every way. I love you. I love the way that sounds. I enjoy saying it to you. You can’t see Me smiling…
Top Red Flags for Single Christians to Watch for (and Avoid) in Potential Mates, Part 2 of 2
Ah, so we meet again… you, red flags, versus us, single Christians.)Yes, we know: Valentine’s Day is coming right up and we are unattached. Single. Dateless wonders. Free and don’t necessarily want to be. But we single Christians know about red flags. We know how you red flags get. You can disguise yourselves in myriads…
Top Red Flags for Single Christians to Watch for (and Avoid) in Potential Mates, Part 1 of 2
One of the most dreaded holidays for singles is lurking around the corner… Is it almost February 14 again?! … <gasp> (or <sigh>) Valentine’s Day! And I’m still single. Oh God. Ugh! God, how could you allow such a holiday to develop? It sucks. I don’t have anybody, but I sure wish I did. I…
Resources For Christian Singles Who Are Dating
You did it, Christian Single. Perhaps the holiday magic did its work and you started dating about two or three months ago. Or maybe you have already been dating for some time now. Congratulations! It’s beautiful, exhilarating, heady, and magical, to be in the beginnings of a fresh new romance. Dating is especially awesome if…
What Cannot Stand and Cannot Deliver
Happy New Year, my friend! A warm welcome to you who are followers of Christ and are single. Especially if you just discovered my weekly blog. May the riches, joy, peace, love, healing, purity, glory, and hope of Christ be yours in an amazing abundance this glorious new year, 2017. Way last week, as we…
Get Engaged This Christmas!
This past week was a very different week for me, but in a good way. I was engaged more than usual. My birthday was last week, and I feel like I have been celebrating for the entire week. It’s unusual for me. This is how my week went: For starters, I’m in an informal birthday…
2016 Top 25 Holiday Tips & Hacks for Christian Singles
Instead of writing on “spiritual” stuff this weekend, with our Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve holidays fast approaching, I thought I’d give you a few holiday tips & hacks instead. Tips and reminders to make our holidays healthier, happier, simpler. Just for us single Christians. I looked for some feeder articles to start my…
The Cancer of the Single Christian’s Soul
When I was pondering and praying over what to write for this week, it took me awhile to come up with what I was actually going to say. Sometimes I get ideas from external sources such as current events, sermons fresh or old, or an article I’ve read. Sometimes they come from my own life:…
Who Are You Following?
Single Christian, who are you following these days? Not just on Face Book or Twitter, but in your life? Followers follow someone who’s ahead of them leading, and there sure are “a lot” of “leaders” around these days! Earlier this week, I was thinking about leaders and how there appear to be so many of them…